Shaykh Ibrahim Osi-Efa: Chivilry, Youth and Sahaba
“The highest level of people who control their rage is that they do good to those who do them wrong and we see that example through the entire life of our blessed Prophet(SAW).” [Shaykh Ibrahim Osi-Efa]
Shaykh Ibrahim gives an enlightening talk challenging the youth to return to the chivilrous way of the Sahaaba in a time when our society parallels that of Makkah. Makkah was a place where people of ignorance became the best of mankind under the guidance of our beloved Messenger, Muhammad(SAW). Among these masters were youth like Umar bin Al-Khattab, Ali bin abi Talib and Abdur-Rahman bin Awf, who went from being killers living in Jahiliyah [ignorance] to becoming soft hearted individuals, who had lines etched in their faces from tears that flowed as they cried from the fear and love of God.
These individuals still fought, but instead of fighting to hurt people for lowly reasons like anger and ego, they fought to uphold justice, protect the oppressed and take a whole society out of the darkness, sincerely for the sake of Allah, but first they fought the battle within themselves to conquer the anger and rage that is within everyone of us. Perfectly illustrated with the example of Ali bin Abi Talib, in which he over powered an enemy on the battlefield and after giving him the opportunity to correct himself, his enemy spat in his face, but Ali simply withdrew, putting his sword down and walking, but when asked by his enemy why he had spared him, Ali replied:
“I was fighting you purely in the way of Allah, but when you spat in my face, your insult made me angry and if I had killed you in anger, it would have taken me to the Hell Fire – so I had no choice but to let you go. To kill someone in anger or out of desire for revenge is not bravery, but the act of a coward.”